Do we realise how much our feelings guide us? Here is a very general way to not read the Bible:
1) read the text and intake via the eye into the brain what is said,
2) have a gut reaction (feeling) and say “God can’t mean that/has to mean the opposite of that”
3) arrange a logical argument with our mind that backs up our feeling, often giving it the best possible motives (“it can’t apply now”, “it stands to reason”, “that was Bible times”…)
4) re-regard the text and summarise that it is a) incomprehensible (“beyond our understanding”) or b) nonsense (“legend”, “poetry”)
The middle two steps here (heart and mind) are not wrong, but they are in the wrong place and (4) is well, how can I put this tactfully… Wrong!